Personal Development Without Development

February 15, 2018 admin 0

They say if you want to make God laugh, tell him YOUR plans. I know He is laughing really hard at me right now. If you recall, back in September I made a post about how I was going back to development land and taking classes.  Well that lasted right [Read More]


Getting Back To Reality

February 5, 2018 admin 0

So I am finally getting back to being a human being. I had major surgery on November 8th and have been in recovery mode since then. Eight weeks of nothing but rest, pain meds and a whole lot of Netflix and Hulu! The last month has been me easing back [Read More]

Stupid Phone!

December 3, 2017 admin 0

Since I’ve been home recovering from surgery I have spent a lot of time actually talking on my phone, an iPhone 6S+. It has been a pretty decent phone. But in the past 4-6 weeks it’s been not so decent. All of a sudden people stopped being able to hear [Read More]

Reinventing Myself…

September 3, 2017 admin 0

I have had many successful careers over the years. From journalist to application developer to digital marketing professional…and many other paths in between. It wasn’t that I just felt the need to move around a lot, but I am a true jack of all trades. I take my passions and [Read More]

Harassment By Any Other Name…

April 1, 2017 admin 0

Harassment is something that women have dealt with for as long as there have been women…so forever. Men making crude remarks, being subjected to crass behavior down to actual physical assault. It’s a horrible thing. And lesbian women are not immune to it either. Except there is a side of [Read More]

Friendship Lost

February 4, 2017 admin 0

After I came out to most of my friends and family I had one person who just couldn’t seem to accept it. It went from laughter, to disbelief, to ridicule, to downright evil. She had always suspected I guess and did more judging and trash talking over the years about [Read More]

So Now What?

January 12, 2017 admin 0

A few weeks ago a “friend” on Facebook made a post asking how could a man love a man. This really threw me because this “friend” is always posting such uplifting messages and passages that speak to being non-judgmental of others and accepting of everyone. So to say I was [Read More]

“It’s Not Possible”

June 15, 2016 admin 0

I have been seeing a lot of people asking how it was possible for the shooter in Orlando to get in the club. From what I’ve read he basically shot his way in, but it has shown me that those not in the LGBTQ community and those who have never [Read More]

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Always Watching, Always Aware

June 14, 2016 admin 0

Earlier today, a friend remarked: "I don't understand. The way you are reacting, it's almost like you knew someone in… Posted by Alex Darke on Monday, June 13, 2016 This is so spot on…it’s my thoughts put in to words. I remember my first PDA moment with Lah, it’s etched in [Read More]